bonding: 3ad: add lacp_strict configuration knob

When an 802.3ad (LACP) bonding interface has no slaves in the
collecting/distributing state, the bonding master still reports
carrier as up as long as at least 'min_links' slaves have carrier.

In this situation, only one slave is effectively used for TX/RX,
while traffic received on other slaves is dropped. Upper-layer
daemons therefore consider the interface operational, even though
traffic may be blackholed if the lack of LACP negotiation means
the partner is not ready to deal with traffic.

Introduce a configuration knob to control this behavior. It allows
the bonding master to assert carrier only when at least 'min_links'
slaves are in Collecting_Distributing state.

The default mode preserves the existing behavior. This patch only
introduces the knob; its behavior is implemented in the subsequent
commit.

Fixes: 655f8919d549 ("bonding: add min links parameter to 802.3ad")
Signed-off-by: Louis Scalbert <louis.scalbert@6wind.com>
Acked-by: Jay Vosburgh <jv@jvosburgh.net>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260603150331.1919611-4-louis.scalbert@6wind.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>

include/uapi/linux/if_link.h

@@ -1603,6 +1603,7 @@ enum {
 	IFLA_BOND_NS_IP6_TARGET,
 	IFLA_BOND_COUPLED_CONTROL,
 	IFLA_BOND_BROADCAST_NEIGH,
+	IFLA_BOND_LACP_STRICT,
 	__IFLA_BOND_MAX,
 };